I only make sex toy recommendations at funerals. It's tasteless at weddings.
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You should never listen to people who criticise success simply because it's success. Being good at something is something to strive for, not something to demonise.
Extreme acts of cruelty require a high level of empathy. The next time you have an instinct to help someone, you might consider crushing them instead. It might save you a great deal of trouble.