These are simple mechanisms of the universe and they do not respond to our wishes.
Warning: Much of this story is written while terribly drunk. Proceed with caution.
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I think we sometimes have very specific conceptions of what it means to be 'traumatized'. We picture like, someone curled up on the bed and sobbing. And that is a common reaction to trauma. But sometimes people more shrug and feel a little weird about what happened. And that doesn't make what happened any better. The action is still wrong no matter the reaction.