When someone is insecure, it is generally because they lacked security as a child.
Madness string 314
You have chosen the wrong path. Do not approach the point directly; it is too dark. Mind your blind spot. It is simply how your eyes work, just as it is how the point obfuscates itself.
Reality does not impose the names and definitions of things, but rather people must define things and make them meaningful in order to make them socially real.