Excuse me, but have you considered the angle of your repose?
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Magnolias everywhere... so many flowers, petals everywhere... so many...
It's extremely distressing when someone just drops out of your life. Adults are often devastated when someone ghosts them. It's a pretty normal impulse to wonder what we did wrong and kids especially have a very egocentric sense of cause and effect. They often think they are responsible for anything bad that happens to them.