The postdoc who did all the work has since left to start a bakery.
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Honestly, the thing I will always tell people who experience this is to call emergency services on the person making the threats. Either you've saved them or taught them a lesson. Either way, it's the best move you can make.
I've felt the blinding emotions that come from clinging to a corner and trying to blend into the wall. The echo of that feeling is permanent.