People who triumph over adversity often decide adversity is therefore fine.
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I feel a bit of an emotion I can't define about this, but I think it will be a good thing.
When I was ten, I read fairy tales in secret and would have been ashamed if I had been found doing so. Now that I am fifty, I read them openly. When I became a man I put away childish things, including the fear of childishness and the desire to be very grown up.