As my mother used to say: a body of water only has arms to pull a biscuit but then you're on your own to push it back.
Expecting the general public to respect a grieving family's wishes is a fantasy.
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Having friends over makes it so much easier because they entertain each other and if I am getting money for it, now I don't even have to make dinner and just order a couple pizzas. Clean up time is easier too when you have a whole crew of kids to pit against each other to see who can pick up the most toys.