No abusive person starts out abusive, otherwise they'd never find partners.
Grim Eyes, I love you, but you don't have the brains the Gods gave an eggplant.
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Insecurity is pointless. It is beyond arbitrary and is actually a weakness. Be aware of your flaws, but embrace them. If you can change them, then change them. If not, then accept them as a reality and move on.