Eh, mercy. In my experience it usually involves a shotgun.
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My neck still aches as I had to constantly turn my head around, because we felt we were not alone there. We had no choice but to pray.
No time to be gentle in an emergency. Just like when they are trying to do CPR, bones will likely be broken. When doctors are 'doing everything' to save a life, it's not pretty. It's not gentle. It's likely very painful and messy. They are doing whatever it takes to save a life. They don't have time to do anything else because every second matters. Unfortunately it is also very traumatic. I'm sorry you went through that, but I hope you and your son are alright now.