I stand alone, my soul and me, beneath the mask that others see.
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And yet you are all that you have, so you must be enough. There is no other way.
My brother lives in an HOA in America and it sounds almost as bad as the communism my family grew up in in Ukraine. Do not do it. Anyone who wants an HOA is a tyrant busy body loser with no life or an enemy of freedom.