A hot tub in the middle of a -20 night is a godsend, getting out is absolute hell.
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While I am personally glad that we met... I feel like for society as a whole it was a bad thing.
My brain caught on to stupid things and connected them to the events and made them into triggers. Mom's perfume. The sound of glass shattering or a door banging open. A song that was playing at the time. Even now I still hate the song but at least it doesn't trigger a flashback anymore. Blood on beige carpet featured prominently in my nightmares.