The only language that everyone truly knows and understands is violence.
Why do you care about your appearances? You will not be having an open casket!
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Yes, once you have what, two, three children to take care of? The naming parameters of your loss don't actually matter as much as whether you can feed and care for your lumpy potato children who are trying to eat dirt off the floor and swallow loose screws and such.