I can't get anyone to love me, just because I'm mean and nasty and evil!
Madness string 102145
People are wired to be social, and being completely isolated changes how you see others. The loneliest I have ever felt was in downtown Tokyo on the streets of Shibuya, surrounded by thousands. Alone in the desert, people start to see each other.
Getting a realistic idea of the spread of opinions in social groups you're not part of is actually work and most people don't want to do that.