Talk to people in their language: watch to what they respond, if they respond to reason, then use it... if they don't respond to words, and only tantrums would do, then a tantrum is warranted.
It's like bathrooms. Public restrooms... with the stalls. People make assumptions.
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Nobody can get the truth out of me because even I don't know what it is. I keep myself in a state of utter confusion.